Brave New You: How Asking for Help Amplifies Your Strength
- Dean Pedersen
- Jul 28, 2023
- 3 min read
Updated: Mar 26, 2024

Embracing Help with Open Arms: A Mental Health Journey
Message from a friend:
I want to take a moment to share with you a chapter of my personal journey, one that's been filled with its own unique challenges and hard-won lessons. When life presented me with the twin hurdles of anxiety and depression, I found myself draped in a heavy cloak of skepticism towards psychiatric medication. As someone who viewed the pharmaceutical industry with a critical eye, I had convinced myself that my own inner strength was sufficient to weather any storm.
I clung to the belief that true strength meant going it alone, that I could — and should — overcome my struggles without any chemical aid. But as the days turned into weeks, and weeks into months, with my mental health showing no signs of improvement, a realization dawned on me: I needed a helping hand.
With a heart full of hope and a mind open to new possibilities, I reached out to a psychiatric nurse practitioner whose kindness and understanding knew no bounds. Together, we embarked on a voyage through the tempestuous seas of finding the right medication. And it was through this experience that I discovered an invaluable truth: seeking help is the epitome of strength, not a mark of weakness.
Breaking Down Barriers
The stigma that casts a shadow over mental illness can be a formidable barrier. It whispers to us that to admit to our struggles is to show frailty. But let me tell you, with the utmost sincerity and love, that there is nothing braver than extending your hand and asking for help. Choosing to pursue treatment for mental health concerns is a testament to your strength, a declaration that you're ready to do whatever it takes to reclaim your well-being.
A New Perspective on Medication
My initial doubts about psychiatric medication gradually gave way to a newfound respect for it as a vital component in the treatment of mental health conditions. I learned that sometimes, anxiety and depression are rooted in chemical imbalances within the brain, and medication can be a key in restoring balance. Yes, the journey to find the right one can feel like navigating a labyrinth, but with a compassionate professional by your side, the path becomes less daunting.
The Power of Openness
One of the most transformative aspects of my healing process was maintaining an honest dialogue with my healthcare provider. I bared my soul about my apprehensions, and together we crafted a treatment plan that felt tailored to my needs and comfort levels. It's crucial to remember that you hold the reins to your treatment. While healthcare providers offer their expertise and support, you are the one who ultimately decides on the course of your journey.
A Holistic Approach
And let's not forget, medication is but one piece of a much larger puzzle. Therapy, regular physical activity, and self-care rituals are also cornerstones of a robust mental health strategy. Striking the right balance between all these elements can usher in a sense of harmony and wellness.
The Gift of Seeking Help
Looking back, the decision to seek help for my mental health was a defining moment in my life. It required courage to acknowledge my struggles, but with the unwavering support of a compassionate psychiatric nurse practitioner, I found the right medication and a path to mental wellness.
If you find yourself in the throes of mental health challenges, I gently urge you to reach out. You are not weak for needing help; you are mighty for taking charge of your mental health. Remember, seeking assistance is a brave act, devoid of any shame. The true strength lies in grappling with the struggle, and the real courage is found in the act of seeking.
In this shared space, we hold out our hands to one another, offering support and understanding. May you always feel welcomed, cared for, and respected here. And may you recognize the indomitable strength within you, especially when you make the choice to seek help. With all my heart, I believe in your journey—because it is a journey of courage, resilience, and profound strength.




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